Here's an open letter to women to make room in your hearts to find love this season and beyond. Guys out there are are serious about finding love and having a meaningful relationship.
They pay for a dating coach, they put the expense and effort into getting new photos taken, they're proactive, and are writing to ten women a day.
She's been coaching singles on how to find love on the Internet for over 20 years.
As you write down your long list of what you're looking for and what you're not looking for, I urge you to take any negative words or statements out of your vocabulary, out of your profile, and out of your first few dates. If you're a walking train wreck, no one will want to date you or fall in love with you.As much as guys say they want a drama-free woman, there is no such thing as a drama-free life.They do the work and they don't complain about it, well not usually.This is what someone does when they pursue what they're looking for. As women, we are trained to wait for the man to find us. We don't search as often and we don't send ten emails to men every day. Not swiping means you just might be waiting and waiting.I urge you to leave the drama behind, leave the novel behind, and go out and be happy. Enjoy meeting new people and learning about life outside of your world.
If your profile is filled with deal-breakers and you're saying "don't contact me if...," I promise you, he won't. Nearly 60% of them are looking for a serious relationship and some 450,000 of them would consider the Internet as a route to love.They can choose from a range of online dating services, but how do they make the right decisions in their efforts to find someone special?Every reputable dating site will ask you to register and supply some details about yourself, and at some point you will be expected to pay a modest subscription so that you can benefit from everything the site has to offer.Some sites are for singles who are interested in a bit of a chat and a bit of a flirt, while others – like PARSHIP – are for people who are looking for someone special for a committed relationship, even marriage.Wishing you much love and joy in cyberspace, or wherever you may roam.